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Does your effectiveness depend on your ability to communicate?
Is it essential to get your point across to a variety of people?
Would your results improve if you could trigger motivation?
Hypnosis is a peaceful, pleasant state of total relaxation and
heightened awareness. It is the process of allowing yourself access to the abilities of the unconscious mind. The unconscious
is the most dominant part of your mind. It is nature's complex computer that stores every feeling, event and idea you have
ever heard, seen or felt in your entire life.
The unconscious acts the way it has been programmed to act,
just like a computer does. Unfortunately much of this programming occurred before we were old enough to choose between ideas
that were helpful, and those that were not. Hypnosis is the key to the mind. As you enter the hypnotic state your senses become
more acute, your concentration becomes more focused on the positive changes that you want, and your unconscious mind becomes
more open to suggestions.
Hypnotherapy can make positive changes in the physical response
and mental and emotional attitude, and change ingrained habits. Hypnotherapy is not dangerous. You yourself naturally engage
your unconscious mind every day. Hypnosis does not cause you to lose control; you cannot be made to say or do anything against
your will or better judgement. Hypnosis is not a unconscious sleep state. You will be able to speak to answer questions and
to recall events that you may have forgotten by your conscious mind. You will remember everything you see or think whilst
in Hypnosis.
(NLP) Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Life Coaching
NLP based are based on the principle that all behaviour has structure, and this structure can be identified learned and adapted
to create positive outcomes. This is a methodology for modelling excellence and is a highly effective
way of creating change and achieving goals. NLP explores the relationships between the way we think (Neuro), the way
we communicate (Linguistic) and our patterns of behaviour (Programming). It was created by John Grinder and Richard Bandler
in the early 1970's, and these NLP processes have been continually refined and updated ever since.
NLP is first and foremost is about taking action. It is
the structure of subjective experience and a model of communication. NLP allows you to unlock and use your mind's potential, allowing
you to change your mind and keep this change. Andrew Nelson has trained with Richard Bandler and Paul Mckenna and is
certificated to practice NLP.
Master your emotions, change your mind - and keep the change.
In a variety of situations you can gain confidence and motivation, banishing unwanted behaviours and waving goodbye to fears
and phobias. Learn how the greats communicate. Find your true potential. Have better relationships
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Hi Andrew
Here's an interesting new article that I think
you will enjoy and find
useful. Included is a
very cool NLP technique, so read on!
All the best, Colin
"The
Half-Second Rule"
by Colin G Smith
http://www.NLPToolBox.com/special_reports/hsr.htm
The mind learns fast. A very powerful way to view life is to
experience everything
as a learning experience. I think it
was Dr. Richard Bandler (co-creator of NLP) who first made
me realise that
Phobias are in fact a learned response. The
mind of the Phobic has learned to associate a stimulus (eg a
Wasp)
to a response (eg Panic!)
The more you ponder this idea the more profound you will
realise the implications.
And
here's the deal. Does a person develop a phobia of wasps
over time? You know, do they see a wasp one day and then the
next
week they see another and decide they don't like them
and get more and more afraid of them?
No. Phobias
are 'learned' very, very fast. Out of
consciousness, in less than half a second!
They have an intense
emotional response which becomes
associated/anchored to the stimulus in such a way that that
state is AUTOMATICALLY
triggered whenever they
see/hear/feel/smell/taste the stimulus again!
This is incredible! The persons
mind will from then on
automatically go into a very altered state, within half a
second of experiencing the
stimulus.
Now I think you'd agree, phobias aren't exactly useful,
right?
But, what if
you could use that same Stimulus/Response
mechanism to create automatic states of Joy, Ecstasy, Fun
and Bliss.
Would
that be useful to you in any area of you life? ;)
Now for sure they are many other ways of creating
effective
change. Some methods use different concepts and are slower
to implement. With this article I wanted
to introduce you
to the half-second rule concepts because they are less well
known than other "change-technologies"
and they lend
themselves well to generating more fun because they are
playful by design.
The
following technique is a really fascinating NLP tool
because it makes great use of your unconscious resources.
I
only discovered it recently and was surprised to learn
that many 'NLP veterans' didn't know about it either!
Merging
Metaphors
(Adapted from a technique called 'Spinning Icons' developed
by Joe Munshaw and Nelson Zink.)
1.
Select a problem state.
2. As you think about your problem state what visual image
comes to mind? Notice
where it is located in space.
3. Break your current state: eg) Remember you phone number
backwards
or look up and notice the patterns on the ceiling.
Now think about the desired resource state (or outcome, or
goal)
you would like instead. Notice how you represent this
as a visual image. Pay attention to where it is located in
space.
4.
Now allow your mind to turn the first picture (problem
state) into a metaphorical symbol or icon. Keep it in the
same
location in space. (This visual metaphor could be quite
complex or it may be as simple as a colour. Just trust your
unconscious.)
TOP
TIP: It can be useful to ask yourself, "What is this
problem state like?" This often allows a metaphorical
representation
to arise.
5. Do the same thing with the desired resource state you
selected in step 3, making sure to
place the new metaphor
symbol in the same location in space as the original image.
6. Now see the two
metaphor symbols at the same time
noticing their locations in space. Next slowly rotate them
around each other.
Keep rotating them around each other and
do so faster and faster. Do this spinning for about 10
seconds allowing
the rotation to be so fast that you can no
longer track the images and you may even feel a little
confused.
7.
Now allow the images to merge together, that's right. And
push this merged image out in front of you where you can
view
it easily. Describe the new image briefly, quickly
moving to step 8.
8. Immediately begin telling WHATEVER
story comes to mind.
Just allow yourself to start telling a story. It doesn't
matter what it is. It could be
a real memory, a story or
just simply made up ramblings. The point being is that this
process taps into your
vast unconscious resources.
9. Now ask yourself, "How is this story relevant to my
problem/challenge?"
or "How can this story help resolve my
problem?" (This step can help to give you conscious insight
into how
the previous steps have made some useful changes.)
Isn't that a great technique! You know it's got
that
magical spirit of curious wonder to it hasn't it?
So I wonder how else could you use a tool like
that to
add more magical sparkles to your life?
©2006 Colin G Smith
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-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- "The Ultimate Truth in Persuasion" Copyright: Colin G Smith http://www.NLPToolBox.com -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- OK, so you want to improve your persuasion power right? Why? What's
your intention? As you know your intent directs the flow of energy in your interactions with others. So doesn't
it just make sense to have in mind a really clear and strong intent before you engage in your powerful persuasion mission.
If you were to think about the person(s) you want to persuade what comes to mind in regards to the benefits they will
gain from your persuasion? Of course your 'persuasive pitch' will be received much more receptively if your intent
is strongly biased to their benefits. So stepping into their shoes what benefits can you perceive from their
angle and looking at the situation as if you were watching a movie what other ideas come to mind? Having some idea
of what the other person(s) want and keeping that positive intention nice and strong in mind when interacting with the
person(s) will automatically create a 'good vibe' between you, thus creating that well known fundamental persuasion
skill - Rapport! Now in your interaction with the other party you would increase your persuasion parlance greatly
by asking well focused questions. Basically you want to ask questions that get the other person to open up so that you
can discover one of the very powerful motivators-to-action in humans known as 'values.' This is another aspect
of the very fascinating way in which the human mind works because you find yourself becoming increasingly curious about
people's values as your persuasion power increases, doesn't it. Now an important point to remember in this curious
adventure is when you have got them talking: You Shut Up! AND Listen! Isn't that cool, you just sit there and listen
as they give you loads of high quality information that you can then use to powerfully persuade and guide them!
By paying attention you will notice that people use certain words which have a lot of emotional value for them personally.
You could call these words their personal trance words. Let me give you an example to clarify what we are talking about.
Let's say you are helping someone make a change in their life. Now presuming the person has asked you to help them you
can make the change process happen even more smoothly by asking them certain questions So during conversation with
this person you could ask them, "Why exactly do you want to make this change?" And, "What would having made this change,
give you?" And also you could ask, "Why is that important to you?" As you ask these questions you will notice that
they have to access deeper parts of their minds. So by paying attention and listening carefully you will discover some
of their personal trance words. Some possible examples of their personal trance words might be: inner peace,
better energy, assertiveness. Keep in mind the important fact that these words could have a deep and powerful feeling
associated with them in their internal experience. Now what do you suppose would happen if you were to then describe
and incorporate those wonderful personal trance words into your persuasive change 'pitch'? That's right, they would
be much more likely to go along with your persuasive intervention because you are using words which stimulate powerful
feelings inside them for the changes that they really want! So just what is 'the ultimate truth in persuasion'?
Well the fact is in the art of persuasion, or indeed anything, there are many ways of doing things, many perspectives, techniques,
methods and tools. The point being, by using it and paying attention to feedback, will it get you the results you want?
-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- Author Bio: Colin G Smith is a licensed Master Practitioner of Neuro- Linguistic
Programming (NLP) and author of 'The NLP ToolBox', a personal development book that enables the reader to master any
area of their life with amazing speed. Complete information on Colin G Smith's books are available at his website, including
a FREE personal development eBook. http://www.NLPToolBox.com
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